Maybe shifting sidewise for a second will help.
When did my understanding of the term R and B (Guitar/Bass/Drums/Harmonica etc) mainly played in pubs, morph into what Kids consider to be R and B (Mainly Black soul/pop crossover music)?
Who started that one...they could have warned us!!
So I'm in agreement with Tom Bliss. Different strokes for different folks (pun intended1)
And don't get me started on Txt Spk....