Maeve,
My big concern for you was that you did not seem to be mourning. You appeared to be taking it all in stride with a philosophical acceptance. It is healthy and necessary to mourn the loss. When my family jewelry was stolen, nothing could replace my mother's, grandmothers' and great-grandmother's wedding rings. It took me years to get past it. Mourn privately or share your thoughts. Either way, you have friends to listen or simply stand by and care.
And thanks for letting us focus on om, Kendall and Michelle. There is so much crap going on right now, it wears me out.
By the way, I fell on my face on Fore Street, cut my nose and hand and bruised everything. I want some sympathy.
Though laughed at the time.
Mary