"if you are out in cold weather, do you go around offering your coat to anyone who has chosen not to dress quite so warmly as yourself?"

It used to be called 'Chivalrous Behaviour" and it was expected that guys would do do such things as this and open door for ladies, throw ones cloak over a puddle, etc. Don't feel that I'm criticising you MtheGM, people just aren't brought up the way they used to be. :-)