The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #125671 Message #2880129
Posted By: EBarnacle
05-Apr-10 - 02:35 PM
Thread Name: Non-music: Singledom Beckons :0(
Subject: RE: Non-music: Singledom Beckons :0(
When I received divorce papers, I got an attorney. One of the first questions he asked me was "If your wife changes her mind, will you drop your countersuit?" It took me about one tenth of a second to answer "No!!!"
I immediately felt better. The relationship was a bad 'un and I had accepted it for the sake of our son. Once I accepted this, I was able to stop grieving and move forward.
I hope you reach the same point quickly.