OK, I'm not trying to be accusatory here, but what I do wonder is, if you 'believe' in this Church, and also 'ignore' and advocate 'ignoring' the parts you don't like, or don't agree with, why not find another church?

The Episcopal Church is nearly the same as the Catholic, but more personal freedom as far as beliefs, more freedom for women, etc.

I just don't get the 'believe but ignore' part.