Don- Morality and ethics vary from place to place and time period to time period. There has been more change back and forth on these through time than anything else.

You were brought up with them so they loom large in your cosmos your culture.

When others differ with you it is more important to talk with them and listen to their songs than it is to drive them away or call them evil.
They could do the same to you.

If you recognize that songs and poetry are simply a language of expression and not actions in and of themselves you will see that there is reality only in deeds not in poetry about deeds. In an open cultural non binding forum everything has to be on the table.

Conrad