The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #24974   Message #289315
Posted By: Morticia
01-Sep-00 - 12:28 PM
Thread Name: BS: Foreign living experience
Subject: RE: BS: Foreign living experience
Well, both my father and my first husband were in the forces so I've lived in lots of countries......and tried to learn the language in each although cantonese was tricky and I only really learned to curse effectively in it.
When it eventually came to settling down I noticed that I had to be very careful not to start a sentence with " When I lived in such and such a place" as people automatically turned off either because they thought it was deliberate swank or that it would have no bearing on what they were interested in.
I learned that you don't have to travel to be broadminded..I met lots of narrow minded people in other countries as well as at home.
Can't comment as to whether I would do it again, it was my whole life and I can't imagine another.
As for music....well, I was exposed to lots of different kinds and enjoyed most....although the atonal chinese stuff never sounded comfortable to my ear.