Kat, I don't think nyone can find it too offensive. Nothing wrong with trying to have a little understanding. I only wish that I could experience a little of the life that my son Tristan lives. MRDD is so tough to understand because we don't know what's going on inside and they can't always communicate what its like so its difficult to even simulate. We just go for the smiles in most cases and if Tris is happy, then Mom and Dad are happy too.

Spaw