Guest anon, what's done is done and cannot be undone.

I do not know , and do not have the right to know, the exact details of your circumstances.

You are obviously under obligation to reveal such details, but what I will say is that if you were a parent while you underwent the change, and if your children were under school -leaving age, then I am sorry, I for one would say that there is no justification on earth for deciding to go through with the change, no matter what internal trauma you were experiencing.

If on the other hand you were not a parent, or if you waited until your children had left school, then good on you, I wish you all the best.