Wesley: Sounds to me like your heart is in the right place, Lad, and you, your Lady, and your bairnies shall be a wonderous Blessing to one another. One source of encouragemant, support, and practical resources for the Parent of Faith which i have long held significant respect for, is Dr. James DOBSON and the Ministry he leads, "Focus on the Family". http://www.fotf.org/

Another correspondant reccomends talking to the babes yet in the womb; I concur heartily, and suggest taking it a step furthur; sing to them as well! Love can be communicated so many ways, at so many levels... and is not song one of the most sacred? Let the celebration of Life begin... Lo!: it hath already commenced! Behold the sacred dance of Creation unfolding before you... and rejoice, already!