you have no idea how much these good wishes help,....... when sometimes you just feel so helpless yourself it is amazing the strength you can get from others....

it is the pancreas, but it looks like it hasn't spread and so is operable probably next wednesday when they have sorted out the jaundice a bit. He is not out of the woods by a long shot, but the news could have been so much worse

thanks for the support
slainte

alison