Congradulations ! Plan something reeally special to celebrate your relationship as a couple in the next few months and mark it with something easily recalled--like a song... keep it uncomplicated you've got twins coming,but mark a date after the boys come to remember it. Raising boys is alot like raising puppies in the early years. They tussle and romp and growl at each other (At least my three seem to) But the sensitivity and relationship skills they get most from what they see around them. If you and Bretta keep on doing with and for each other they'll catch on. Oh, and a great huge repitoire of lullabyes at least an hours worth before repeats....Give Bretta and both boys each a hug..