I'd keep it very quiet and try to do good with the money. Endow public libraries and a chair or two and some scholarships at a University. Help the family with no-interest loans, but no giveaways (my family wouldn't take those). Probably replace my 11 year old Honda Civic with something newer and have some work done on the house. Put some aside for my older age. Give some to organizations with a PROVEN CURRENT track record of helping veterans and the needy poor. Pay taxes.