Well, I am back home after the wedding weekend &, I have to say, things are looking much brighter. Although the day, yesterday, started rainy, by 11 am, it was cloudy & humid, but dry. We were able to hold the ceremony in a beautiful garden, full of fragrant roses. Despite all my fears & reservations, in the midst of becoming a new couple, David & Nina found ways to include me in their lives. I was so touched. David had reserved a dance at the reception with me--just the two of us on the floor & had even chosen a special song. I know this is, sometimes, part of formal weddings, but this was not a totally formal affair, so I had no idea what they would/wouldn't do. My son & I had several minutes to chat, one on one, as the music played. What a precious gift! The best part for me, however, was that, at the rehearsal dinner & during the reception, I got to see David & Nina interact with each other & with their friends. I think I finally see what makes their relationship work & I think it's solid. David is a lot like my dad was--a really deep-down good, dependable guy, but he needs a social woman to liven him up a bit. My mom was that for my dad & I think, Nina is the woman in this generation for my son. I know it sounds really silly to some of you, but I think I can let go now & entrust him to her. They're off on their honeymoon & I hope they have a great time! Thanks to all of you for indulging me & for helping me adjust to this major life change!

love,

Barbara

P.S.--I put a couple of photos on my flickr page:
Me, before the ceremony

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