Mrrzy: "Um, dads don't provide anything to the prenatal environment."
Neither do blind mothers. I'd suggest, opening your eyes, and BE the type of woman, that makes her man WANT to be more, that you can see. It's Perception, Perception, Perception!!
A man is NOT going to be the SAME to the children, as a mother is...and its that DIFFERENCE that makes the WHOLE!
If you want to turn your man, into a woman...well, that says more about you, than your ol' man!
Though I agree, that SOME men fall down on their obligations and PRIVILEGE to be a good father, your statement shows a jaded bitchiness, on your part.