GROW UP!!band members are a dime a dozen.......fire this spoiled brat or you will spend the rest of your life going through this B...S...!!there is no such thing as a COMPLETE band ,forever........deversity is what a band is all about,or just disband and forget it!!you'll be glad you did ,in the long run!i had to fire a good friend of mine,excellent lead guitar player,right before a performance one night.he thought he was expendible and thought we could not do a show without him....but he soon learned that guitar pickers are a dime a dozen ,too.......he has now gone on to bigger and better things,his own band,all kinds of stuff.........to this day,he thanks me for giving him the boot and setting his aim in life with his music....straight!!