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Thread #132160 Message #2987540
Posted By: Joe Offer
15-Sep-10 - 05:39 PM
Thread Name: BS: Local ideas of etiquette / politeness
Subject: RE: BS: Local ideas of etiquette / politeness
I have received allegations that Lizzie comes from Outer Space, but that's another matter....
I hadn't heard of the Minnesota Nice that Jim linked to, but I grew up with similar behavior in Southeast Wisconsin. I left Wisconsin in 1970 and moved to California in 1973, but I'm still not comfortable with the hugs (and sometimes kisses) that near-strangers exchange here in California. Now, I like a good hug from somebody I like and know well, especially if that person is a female of the opposite sex, but hugs from relative strangers just feel uncomfortable. I admit that sometimes I will sometimes initiate a hug because it seems to be the accepted thing here, but it rarely feels right. To me, a hearty Wisconsin handshake seems a lot more sincere than a superficial California hug. And if I want to be really sincere, I can shake with two hands.