Yes my wife is an enabler! Everyone should have several enablers in their lives. Much better than a grimmicing restrainer! Or limiter.

Get used to it- in the folk world people sing, clap, tap their feet and drink and eat enthusiastically- been doing it for centuries. Get out of the way of the train. Do what ever you wish but dont try to censor the tradition. Too much of the addiction to sensitivity and discrimination. You make my point very well.

We have a pool of 40 or so regulars. CFFP

As oft stated- read Ben Johnson and others from the 16th and 17th centuries to learn of the traditions as developed then. Freeing the muse has nothing to do with drunkenness. However its not sitting in a corner with one lite beer all evening being dissabled by your wife ever five minutes when you think about having another round. Heaven help the husband of the disablement gal.

Conrad