"You're also not paying attention to what I write but then this is mudcat and I realize that's how it is around here. I'm NOT talking about ALL life. I'm talking about human life."

Touchy!! Josep, nothing that you have written rules out the possibility of humanoid aliens having evolved on other planets. True we don't know of any planets orbiting other stars which are exactly like Earth but there is a possibility that something like parallel evolution could occur in a similar, but not identical, environment.
As a thought experiment try imagining a credible, full functioning intelligent being (which has evolved on an earthlike planet) which is NOT vaguely humanoid. I would guess that something that evolved on a world profoundly different from ours might well be different.

And, by the way, if you stop throwing tantrums and go back and read my original post you will find that I said nothing about humanoid aliens and was making a different point entirely!