Well, pretty much every member of the Catholic Church I know doesn't let the Church interfere with their religion. Like the ordination of women (in what is now the Slovakia and the Czech Republic, back in the Bad Old Days) or giving oral contraceptives to the nuns in the Congo back in the early '60s, the Church has long had a "do as I say" attitude. As a result the Church has lost Ireland, the US, France, Germany....