I too thought, that I didn't have the time or energy to be in more than one band, but once I got around to juggling schedules it worked out (to my surprise) extremely well, and now I'm enjoying music with two different groups, and enjoying gettng in all of the playing that I am.

Why not give it a try EJ and see how it goes? If it really does prove to be too much, then I suppose you've got some hard choices to make. But if it works out, like it did for me, then you'll be playing in two rewarding situations.

Best of luck.