Russ, I've been thinking further about Songs for My Funeral (not in a morbid way,just musing) Some funerals here are dire, with 'My Way' etc. all rather cringe-making. I think I'd like something funny such as George Formby's When I'm Cleaning Windows, or even The Laughing Policeman. And definitely Leonard Cohen and Enya. Roll Out the Barrel should also go down well, and some Morris Dance music, eg Speed the Plough and Just As the Waters Were a-Flowing. Any other ideas anyone?