People who pray for enlightenment, for guidance, for patience, for forgiveness, even from others, often receive it.

Yes, but the question is, where from? They will assume from God, whereas I would be inclined to think that the mental discipline of praying has focussed their mind and they have done it themselves. That is only my opinion though, based on my own experiences and observations. What others may think is very much their own affair.

OK you are saying that claimed something extraordinary and decided that in your opinion it was coincidence?

I don't understand that question, Jack.. Could I ask you to rephrase it?