Hmmmm. Ebbie, let me think about this. If I choose #1, does that mean no sex with nobody nohow?

I do think that intimacy and continued togetherness is far more important than sex....but why should it preclude having sex at all? That's why I left the seminary and didn't become a Catholic priest - I couldn't buy the arbitrary requirement for celibacy, and the thought of not having a family to go home to.

If a woman who loves me is going to give me two choices, I think I'll take #3 - both sex and togetherness. We humans need both.

-Joe-