In an ideal world the one and only lover is a great idea in theory. You can love the one lover with all your mite (if you are unlucky enough to have a bad one) only then to be manipulated and controlled by him or her ruining how you can feel about anyone again. That is not love that is demoralising ownership. Immorality isn't just to do with sexual affairs or promiscuity, the constant mental bullying and the tearing down of a partner's asteem is just as immoral.

If that is what sticking with one lover is all about I would rather be just me, myself and I.