Even without practicing a religion, one can always understand the sentiment "there but for the grace of god go I."

I think this is an example of how we can heap guilt, through sadness, upon ourselves. This news opens an opportunity where you can offer a huge amount of help, but don't forget to protect your heart just a little. Here's wishing the best of luck to Tracy, and take care of yourself in the process, Michelle. The weight of the world is to big for one person.

SRS