Joe I agree as long as children are still protected. It wouldn't be for me either but on the otherhand there is nothing worse for a child learning secondhand from a school chum or bully about an illicit affair that his or her father has had or the other way round of course the mother. With polygamy where everyone is known to each other the unsuspecting children aren't going to get a nasty surprise in the playground. I suspect there are many youngsters that have to put up with that kind of bullying all because of someone elses actions.