Whatever happened to "kudos" "high-fives" "congratulations" "pats on the back" "praises" "cheers" "atta-boys" and maybe a few other phrases to say 'nicely done' to someone?
   Those don't carry the onus (look it up) of something debatable & illegal.

I ain't passing judgment on what anyone DOES, just noting that Google can lead strange folk in here when they are following certain searches.