The only point at which I might begin to anticipate (not "expect") sex with someone is normally....after I've gotten to know her well enough that I know I like her, I know I respect her, I know I find her really interesting and appealing, I most DEFINITELY know that I really like her a whole lot!...and I get the feeling she feels much the same about me.

Then I may begin to anticipate the possibility of sex.

And that takes a fair while to happen, because it normally takes awhile to get that well acquainted with a person, doesn't it?

It does not happen while walking down the street, that's for sure. And it has absolutely nothing to do with buying or selling anything. It has to do with establishing levels of trust, intimacy, and mutual respect.

And that is why I don't get how any man can feel "okay" about paying someone to have sex with him.

This does not mean I wish to have prostitutes busted. It just means I don't wish to become a paying client myself, that's all.