Revisiting the old grief and fear is how we evaluate where we are. I used to pay attention to the anniversary of the surgeries after my diagnosis, but it has been 10 years. I do still tell people how old I am when they ask, and mention my birthday - I'm glad to be around still to celebrate them.

I'm so glad your friend has come through her surgery so well - I'm sure your presence helped her a lot.

SRS

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