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Thread #134595   Message #3063598
Posted By: Little Hawk
29-Dec-10 - 10:32 PM
Thread Name: BS: Why I should not marry, simplified.
Subject: RE: BS: Why I should not marry, simplified.
Hmm. That's too bad. Doesn't give one much to work with, does it?

I've encountered people I can't work with in this life, and I know I can't, so I just don't go around them if I can help it. I avoid them. But I don't judge them for it, I just avoid them, that's all.

I wonder if you ever saw the movie "Monster" with Charlize Theron? It's a simply incredible, moving, but deeply depressing film. It sure makes you think. There are some situations you just can't fix. Maybe you can't even understand them. Maybe no one can. But if you can forgive them, it takes you a lot farther than if you can't.

And I keep trying to learn that as best I can.

You know what I do try to do? I try to find people and situations that I truly love and believe in and focus on that. When I do find such people or situations, it seems to transform all of life and lift things up to a whole new level. It's like flying on your own wings. I keep watching for that and hope I don't miss it when the chance comes along. Gotta make magic. That's what we're all here for, to make magic. In my opinion.