I host a club that has Singarounds and full P.A nights alternative weeks. Certainly for a singaround singing from a book or songsheet is fine, I would reccomend it for beginners. I had/have the same problem and still perform new songs from a song sheet. You'd be amazed how many experienced and pro performers forget the words of songs they can normally remember by heart. And at our singers nights we don't frown on it at all, but you're right, the odd club or performer can be a bit snobby about it. If you use a music stand I suggest, each time you sing, move it a little to the side each time, until it's there if you need it, and finally try not using it at all. Don't worry about forgetting it happens and the audience will often shout out the right line, if not make a joke of it and do the c horus again. Good luck

Desi C
The Circle Folk Club
Coselet w.m, club
Ivyhouse Lane, Coseley
W.Mid's WV14 9JH
Every Wed night
Newcomers welcome