Skarpi this is a subject that is near and dear to my heart as well, and although I usually refrain from involvement in emotional threads, I wanted to lend my support to you in these exceedingly trying times. I KNOW EXACTLY what you are going through and how you are feeling. (Be thankful it wasn't your own father who did this to your daughter.)

Your daughter needs all the strength, love and nurturing you can give her now. And perhaps councilling by a professional experienced in these matters would help as well. You know best.

By all you have shared on the Forum in these past weeks, it is apparent you are a survivor and very strong inside, and it is quite relevant to question why all these terrible things have been happening to you. It is also very easy to lose that strength and abandon hope, when you feel your heart breaking. Don't. As you said, fight it with every ounce of strength you can muster, for you and your family. Things will get better. I know what it must have taken for you to share this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.