Dear lorcan,

'My Father's house has many mansions.'

You obviously live in the west wing away from these other guys.

The whole point of Quakerism is that you don't stand in judgement of other mens souls and their testimony.

To be honest its why I just wandered off from Quakerism - judge not lest ye be judged is the toughest injunction to follow. it was totally beyond me.

Anyway its your call, but if I were you - I'd stop worrying about what other Quakers do. Do your own thing.

If it really offend you whats going on in your church - start another meeting. The Provisional Wing of the Quakers!

best wishes

al