before people get hurt,

I would point out that the motivation of evry poster in this thread is a desire and hope to see Spaw get better, that means Kat, Olddude, Raparee etc

So if someone gets uncomfoprtable, they are only sqaying so because they want the best for spaw, and if they push the boundaries of humour, again, they are only doing it because they want the best for spaw.

None of us have to change, just be understanding of each other (not the same as understanding each other - I might not understand, but I can still be understanding)

So admire each other for trying to achieve the same positive ends, even if it is in a different way to the way we believe is best.

all the best to you all folks.