Tam, I was looking for encouraging words to give you but frankly, I'm almost speechless. Maeve's links look good however, and I would add that wherever she goes and whatever bit of help she gets, have her ask for another office or agency that may be able to help, complete with contact person.

{{{{hug}}}}

Elva B (Ebbie)

Maybe I should add that I was diagnosed with lupus back in the 70s- and I am fine.