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Thread #135090   Message #3088447
Posted By: Keith A of Hertford
04-Feb-11 - 05:39 AM
Thread Name: BS: Muslim prejudice
Subject: RE: BS: Muslim prejudice
Some Asian husbands trapped in loveless, dead ­relationships become ­frustrated, their desires ­emotionally distorted. And yes, as Lord Ahmed says, they prey on young white girls for their perverse sexual satisfaction.
Sex, for them, is not reciprocal or an act of consent. It is taken as a right, regardless of what their wives — or indeed, those young girls they prey on — think.

I recently met a young ­Muslim woman called Munee, who told me she was brought over from Pakistan to marry her cousin when she was 17.

With brutal candour, she said to me: 'It was like rape every time because he didn't want me and I didn't want him.' She ran away. And, she told me, her husband now has a 13-year-old white 'girlfriend'.
But her husband is far from acting alone in the Pakistani community. One man I met, called Taher, looks back with ­revulsion at his previous self, for he too used to prey on young white girls. Today he works for a charity and says he feels desperately sorry for the ­victims of arranged marriages. 'I was crazy — a young man with sexual needs married off to a young virgin. She was very sweet, but there was nothing between us,' he says.

'I would not sleep with her, so I started cruising with these guys looking for easy sex with white girls.'

A Number of Asian men run off to get away from forced marriages. I know of stories of savage sexual and physical abuse and ­emotional persecution meted out to rebellious sons.
He continues: 'There was one really sweet teenager — her mother was a drunk — who really got attached to me. She changed my attitude. Everybody had failed her, so I stopped behaving like that.

'I still feel guilty and filthy for what I did in the past. And I now want to help these families.'
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1353512/Forced-marriages-A-Muslim-peer-linked-unhappy-arranged-marriages-Asian-gangs-g