Thankyou everyone for the lovely thoughts and offers of help. No-one has approached me directly about this yet (obviously we know Rod and Danny very well) but we're all very very touched by what we've hears about so far. I can put things up on my Twiiter page, various facebook groups and my website, www.eliza-carthy.co.uk. I'll keep an eye on this thread too if it stays alive, and spread the word around. Get in touch!
My beautiful parents and me are very grateful. Thankyou.
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