Mrrzy - bless you for sitting up with him after he was "turfed" to you.   Our system is broken and I know if first hand. Whether or not he will wind up with an AA type program, I can second the comment that AA'rs often now best how to keep a patient where they need to be whether that's in a treatment facility or in your living room. Calling them for advice is fine but the doctor who failed your nephew by putting his life at risk should be reported.

None of this is truly your job but I commend you for taking it all on. You must feel like a wrung out dish rag about now. Sending love to you and all the kind folks who find it in their hearts to care for society's unwanted and uninsured. Those who most need help in this our country are the ones who are most often turned away. I am so hoping this turns out with your nephew sober.