And one thing that is fundamentally wrong is that some Muslim men think that ALL western women are 'up for it'. This is as racist (and depressing) as saying all Muslim men are misogynists.

However, I recognise that in my culture there is a great deal going wrong at the moment, and the lack of self-respect amongst young women is just one of those things. I'm appalled at how so many young people (and older too) behave these days.

I'm sure Sheikh Assaf would be equally appalled at how some Muslim men behave too, because it brings disrespect to him, as a Muslim, just as women having sex with complete strangers, in a drunken club night stupor, or flaunting themselves so blatantly, brings disrepect to me, as a woman.