Thanks everyone, he has a bit of a cough today but his GP is coming to check him out ! the good news is that at last, he has agreed to have carers in each day, two hours in the morning to help with showering and cooking breakfast, an hour at five to cook dinner and another at nine fortyfive to help them get ready for bed.It is such a relief as mum has memory problems and I have been trying to persuade them to have help for the past year! Onward and upward!
Wendy