You got 'em!

Major surgery is never fun, but if she will not be having a radical mastectomy - and it doesn't sound like she will since no lymph nodes are involved - she should recover just fine and more quickly than you might think.

Ya'll sit back and relax now, and rest up. One good thing about the farm not yet being sold is you could put off the move (and the stress of preparing for the move if you have a deadline looming,) for a bit while P-vine recovers physically, and both she and you recover emotionally from the shock of all of this.