There are a few factors to take into consideration here.

There is nothing more important than a child, if you feel in your head and heart you have to be with her, then go.

The employment situation is no better over there than it is here. If you can afford to go on a holiday/fact finding trip, please do that first.

Being with the ones you love is important, being able to live in comfort with financial ease of mind is VERY important.

As we all get older, time seems to pass quicker, either plan and act now, or settle yourself into your comfort zone and bring your daughter over here.

Thoughts with you right now, I hope you find peace of mind over this soon.