Hardly fair. Do those little blue pills help? I always found that they made me stupid but I still felt pain - dulled. No mastectomy. Just lots of bumps removed and biopsied.

Bobert,
If you need to, vent here in PMs to people you trust. It helps. And your remarks will go no further.
P-Vine is mourning a terrible loss. Don't underestimate your own loss.
You are both always in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary