You have said before on here that you have a miscarriage. If you do not want to discuss it stop bringing it up like it gives you some special right or privilege or insight that no one else has. You also do not know what happened to me, so do not presume that your pain or experience somehow Trumps mine. Thanks.

I have lost a child and still I can find compassion in my heart for those 2 abused boys, so maybe you should try to find some compassion in your own heart. To talk about all children "acting strangely" and "struggling" shows you to be so far removed from the lives and the experiences of those two boys as to be onanother planet. Maybe you should shut up and get rid of your pompous arrogance and think yourself lucky that you and your children have never had to experience the abuse that made those boys do such an evil thing. Because heaven knows what it may have done to you. So just thank god that you will never have to know what it feels like to be them.