Hi Mick

We have never had any contact on Mudcat but you are one of the few whose posts I always enjoyed reading and found a lot of sense in.
Right now is hard but having lost both parents I can tell you the time will come when you can look back on the happy times and smile, laugh out loud and enjoy them all over again without the pain.

You have given up a fair chunk of your life for your Dad - now is the time to get out there and find it again. That's what he would want.

My thoughts are with you

Eddie