To be totally honest my younger son who was 14 at the time was I think looking at it from more of a financial point of view. As for a variety of suitors, lol, not that many. For a while I didn't go or do anything to look for anyone in particular. That happened when I least expected it and the man and I still have such a good friendship but I am reluctant to make it permanent even though there is a lot of affection between us. Who knows a more permanent arrangement might be something to consider in old age rather than now.