You sound very capable and sensible, and I'm sure you'll find a way, especially as you feel you can cope with the outbursts. Love your cats' names! It's so interesting isn't it, the very different personalities among cats? I've had all types over the years, they're just as varied as us humans. At the moment, our three are a good mix, with one submissive, timid cat, one 'the boss', very intelligent, and one nondescript gentle easygoing little chap. I suppose personality clashes happen, just as they do with people!