Janie, I have not been in your situation (yet!), but I have seen others go through it. Adult children have moved away for a job or spouse's job; retiring parents have moved away to a community of other retirees, etc. I hope others on Mudcat can give you good advice, especially about services available where they are. I suppose the info is on the internet, but it may not be easy to find. I hope the available services are more than adequate. One discovery may lead to another, and the people who work with your relatives may know how to get the services they need. I will continue to keep you in the Light.