Jim, you are like an airhead in a beauty pageant, whose ambition is world peace.
You think that war is a bad thing, and imagine there is a debate about that.
You don't approve of people getting killed and imagine there is an alternative opinion.

Grow up.
Universal peace and love is not going to break out any time soon.
Mass murdering monsters have to be stopped, and real people have to make real decisions about acceptable costs to achieve an aim that you say you support.

So, don't stand back wringing your hands and imagining you are the only one who cares.